12 Years ago today I met my partner, TOIL. I was a college freshman at the time and decided to explore online dating. I chatted with a number of guys for a month or so through the personals website. Then, one sunny Wednesday, I was bored and done with class so I decided to go to the store where one of the guys I was chatting with worked. That simple decision led to our first date two days later. Fast forward seven years later, while on vacation in Rome, I proposed to him and he said ‘yes’. He inspires me, he makes me laugh, he makes me a better person, and most of all he makes me happy.
It is amazing how seemingly insignificant decisions, like randomly stopping in at his job that day, can have such a profound impact on one’s life.
Don’t forget there is more to life than kink.