On numerous occasions I have had other Doms that I do not know send me messages asking to participate in scenes with me. I never have had any interest in doming with anyone besides my partner TOIL so when I received these messages I paid little attention to them. Additionally, I believe that the majority of the people that send these messages to strangers lack the type of interest that I have in bondage, control, and kink.
On Saturday night of IML 139 (NateQx) wanted to be a tertiary Dom to 79 (FlyboyFL) with me and my partner. From my conversations with 139, and him wrestling me after subbing for me earlier in the day on Saturday I could tell he shares my level of interest in bondage and control. He has an understanding and passion for bondage and control that people many years older than him lack. His knowledge and understanding have continued to impress me in our post-IML conversations.
Looking back, I am surprised that when 139 brought this idea up on Saturday night I had no hesitation with it. Maybe it was because I knew I would be running the show and I would still be in control of him but I think it had more to do with the level of trust he built with me. Another benefit is that while our styles of domming are distinct they are generally complementary.
I am happy things worked out the way they did with 139’s role on Saturday night. I do not anticipate doming with anyone besides my partner or 139 anytime soon but anything can happen in the future. I would like to thank 139 publicly for the personal growth he helped me through.
If you are a sub looking for more than just getting off while being restrained and will be traveling through Colorado I suggest you get in touch with NateQx to see if your interests are a good match.