Written on 7/20/13 by 79
Shortly after my first year of college, I began to venture into the world of kink. A friend of mine introduced me to Recon and from there I met two great people, one of which I started dating. The three of us would often get together and take turns tying each other up. Many memories were made and we established a great foundation for BDSM.
Although I will always cherish those memories, I knew I wanted something more. I wanted to get deep into the BDSM community. I would frequent many Recon profiles and dream that one day I may be able to visit a well-respected Dom in the community. That dream came true when I met Fossil9 about two years after first joining Recon.
I flew up to Chicago from Florida to meet with family. Prior to the trip, I sent Fossil9 a message asking if he would be interested in playing. It took a lot of courage to do this. We briefly messaged back and forth and he indicated he was interested in playing. I was incredibly excited and equally anxious. Not only was this the first time staying in a big city, it was also the first time I would venture out into the scene alone.
When I arrived in Chicago, it finally hit me that I would soon visit Fossil9. The anxiety kept building. I knew he was well respected in the community, but I didn’t know much about him. I had never even seen his face or heard his voice.
At the time, Fossil9 lived pretty far north of the city. Getting there involved taking a cab to the train station and a 40 min train ride. He asked that I show up locked in chastity. Soon after boarding the train, I became increasingly hesitant. Each stop I contemplated getting off the train and heading back to the city. I called my friend Boundand for advice. He reassured me in saying that if I got off the train and passed up this opportunity, I would surely regret it.
Nearing the station, I texted Fossil9. He gave me instructions on where he would be parked. I was able to locate his car. He could tell I was nervous so we started off having a normal conversation. It was so surreal at this point in time.
After arriving at his house, we walked up to his playroom. We talked about limits, expectations, safe words, and all of the gear he had. There was one last thing before we began. I handed over the key to the chastity device I was wearing.
He quickly stripped me down to my boxer briefs, handcuffed me to a cage, and blindfolded me. Shortly thereafter he wrote 79 on my chest. I wanted to test the waters a bit so I proceeded to knock the blindfold off when he left the room. Needless to say, I paid for that…
It took about 20 minutes to completely relax and fall into the scene. He put me in many different positions and I tried many different types of gear. This was truly the first time I ever fell deep into sub space. If you had asked me anytime during the scene what my name was, I probably wouldn’t have been able to tell you.
The scene came to a close with me positioned horizontally across the top of his cage. I was cuffed down and edged. He also incorporated breath play with the use of a gasmask. After what felt like an eternity, he gave me permission to cum. I took a picture of his playroom following the scene just to prove to myself it wasn’t a dream.
The experience was monumental in my kink career. Not given the opportunity, I wouldn’t be where I am today in the community.
I have played with Fossil9 several times following my first visit, including a recent visit last night. When he created his blog a year or so ago, I promised I would write a post on my first experience. I told him I could have it done shortly after IML. I wasn’t able to fulfill that promise so I asked him to give me a deadline. I also failed to meet that deadline.
I learned last night that Fossil9 didn’t forget about my failure to perform. I have some sore nipples to prove that… I was given a new deadline to complete the post by midnight tonight so here I am. I definitely did not want to find out what would happen if I failed to meet the third deadline…
In the text above 79 recounted his first visit with me. He is a great guy with a good head on his shoulders! Also, he is a lot of fun to play with whether it is in the playroom or kneeling before me in the lobby at IML.