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I have been toying with ideas on using one of my cages a little differently lately. There is a specific single sub position that has been on my mind a lot lately and it still needs a bit of refinement. While working out that position in my head I got the idea to take a few elements of it and add them to a position I have used since 2005 (see this post). The product of this is the position shown below with 157 & 211.
157 is in the cage with his neck locked though the side of the cage so his head is on the outside. 211 is on top of the cage in the heavy collar and wrist cuffs. I put a parachute on 211’s balls and a locking ball stretcher on 157’s balls; then I locked their balls together. I put nipple clamps on 211 and tied a string to the clamps and put it in 157’s mouth so he could pull on them. I enjoy having subs set up like this and having them put themselves (and the other sub) through some pain. It is a great way to see who will follow orders and who needs a little encouragement.
At this point in the scene, with these subs, it was not time to get intense which is why the chain had some slack. In the right scene the chain between the two subs’ balls will be shorter and there will be a few other elements added to keep the boys focused.
Going back a few years I was not a very verbal Dom. I tended to focus upon bondage and power exchange was always part of it but it was not the primary focus. Today I am not very verbal during a scene except when I am verbally humiliating a sub. Most communication is non-verbal and a Dom can communicate volumes in a scene to an sub with unrestricted vision.
Participants in a scene need to be in the proper headspace to ensure the verbal dialogue, or monologue, does not erode the integrity of the scene. I am sure all of us have watched some sort of BDSM video where it is obvious the Dom and sub are performing a script as opposed to building a scene based upon their mutual interests. That being said, the goals of actors in a BDSM porn are very different than a typical Dom or sub in a scene.
The picture below of 157 and me is one that captured a moment while I was letting him know a few rules during a scene.