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In a couple previous posts I have touched on having a sub drink from a dog bowl.  My post Humiliation – Pissing in his Water Bowl I wrote about a slightly different take on this subject.  For some pups drinking from a dog bowl is not humiliating at all, it is simply what they do.  For most subs, and some pups, drinking from a dog bowl is humiliating since it breaks the ‘norm’.  Either way it really turns me on when a sub embraces his role.

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Normally when I have a sub drink from a bowl he will be collared.  The metal sound from the collar hitting the bowl is another dimension that adds to a scene.  The three pics to the left here show 191 drinking Jameson and cranberry juice.

To the right 31 is drinking my piss from a dog bowl.  He really gets into the humiliation aspects of piss, as described in my previous post.

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Going back a few years I was not a very verbal Dom.  I tended to focus upon bondage and power exchange was always part of it but it was not the primary focus.  Today I am not very verbal during a scene except when I am verbally humiliating a sub.  Most communication is non-verbal and a Dom can communicate volumes in a scene to an sub with unrestricted vision.

Participants in a scene need to be in the proper headspace to ensure the verbal dialogue, or monologue, does not erode the integrity of the scene.  I am sure all of us have watched some sort of BDSM video where it is obvious the Dom and sub are performing a script as opposed to building a scene based upon their mutual interests.  That being said, the goals of actors in a BDSM porn are very different than a typical Dom or sub in a scene.

The picture below of 157 and me is one that captured a moment while I was letting him know a few rules during a scene.

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Humiliation – Piss (31)

Fossil9 —  June 19, 2012 — 4 Comments
Some guys are really turned on by watersports (w/s).  I never was into w/s until I understood the humiliation aspect of it for a sub.  It was 4 or 5 years ago when I first gave it a try and I had a bit of a slow start with it.  Watersports can be a very powerful way to humiliate a sub, especially if he is not otherwise into piss.

When I utilize w/s in a scene it is not because a sub enjoys w/s, although this may be a fetish of theirs.  I use it because of what it symbolizes.  It is humiliating for a sub to be restrained and pissed on or forced to drink a Dom’s piss.  While I have done w/s in the shower before it does not have the same psychological impact on a sub when they know they are simply going to be showered off right away.

Below are pics of 31 locked in the cage with a singlet on while I pissed on him.  He also got to drink plenty of it.  Notice the piss on his chest, absorbed into the singlet, and on the floor of the cage.  On a side note, 31’s piss is in the dog bowl.  That was for something else I did with 31 later in the session.

Watersports can get messy but I am willing to make a mess for my enjoyment:

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Update from 31:
That whole experience made me feel the most submissive I’ve ever felt.  And it wasn’t so much the pissing.  It was being left to shiver, drenched in piss, cold and very uncomfortable, SIR.